Why bad temper? if not deal with, it will make a fool of you soon enough.

Often people become frustrated by one thing or other and end up carrying the anger around with them, not knowing the danger they are put themselves into even long after the actual reason has passed. One thing you must have in your mind is this life will throw different stone like frustration, bitterness,provocation etc toward you in other to change the real you to something else but it is your duty to learn how to control your temper in every situation because two wrong cant a right. Dont allow bad temper because it does more damage than you ever know. HOW? read the story of this little boy who had a bad temper to see what i mean.

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.” You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there. Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.

Remember if you lose your temper, you lose!




Hello world, life has smile on us again. Let do our best to add value to life.

Here is my tidbit of the day Imagine with all your might, Believe with all your heart and Achieve with ll your might.
Our successes are achieved by our actions. Our action are determine by Imagination and strong belief. Never underestimate your belief in yourself and in your dreams. After all, that’s where it all starts.
Thought without action won’t take you anywhere. Meanwhile, action without thought can end in disasters. Both goes hand in hand; but both also need imagination and strong belief.

Your  strong beliefs empower your thoughts and the quality of your life.
Your beliefs establish your values which determine all of your decisions and actions. Whenever you are reaching for a dream or a goal, it is important to not just believe in what you can do but also believe that you will achieve your goal.
When you go after your dream, you need to put your whole heart into it, every step of the way; from the planning, to the dreaming, and up to the achieving part. Nothing should be less than 100%. It’s pushing yourself to reach for your goal as soon as possible. No successful person got to where they are by slacking off. They dreamt big, planned big, and worked like tomorrow is the day they would achieve their goals.
Don’t leave anything out when going after what you truly desire and truly aspire. Go get it with all your might and will all efforts you can put into it. And more importantly, go after it now. Just make it happen.

Remember your world will move in this direction and your will achieve and manifest success in all.

God bless you, do have magnificent day.

Your humble friend,
🙂 apostlespeaks